January 17th marked Beatrice’s first birthday. Can you believe it? It’s already been a year. I know people say that all the time, but it really is true. The time has passed quickly.
Here’s a few memories, mostly in chronological order:
- Beatrice’s first few weeks were spent sleeping next to Dad, or in the co-sleeper next to the twin bed in her room. She liked to be swaddled and tucked right in the crook of his arm. Not very comfortable for Jason, but sweet dreams were had for Beatrice.
- Speaking of sleep, Jason did night duty for this little girl for weeks, until she was pretty much sleeping through the night. He is amazing.
- What is also amazing, and a pure gift from God, is that Bea started sleeping through the night at about eight weeks. At around this time we moved her from the co-sleeper into her crib.
- For the first three months of her life Beatrice would not take daytime naps anywhere but upright, snuggled on someone’s chest. There was a lot of baby-wearing going on in this house. At exactly 12 weeks we started putting her down in her crib and after getting past the shock of a mattress instead of a warm body, she learned to sleep alone. She sleeps on her tummy, sucking her thumb.
- At around eight months Beatrice started crawling, clapping and waving. These milestones made me feel like she really moved from an infant to a toddling baby.
- At ten months Beatrice could pull herself up on her knees and by eleven months she could pull herself up to standing. She’s nowhere near the walking stage yet. The only time she’ll stand is if she’s at the edge of the bathtub, banging on the side because she wants to get in.
- Speaking of, she LOVES baths and water. She had her first pool and ocean swims in July when we went to Florida. But she really just loves sitting in the bathtub batting at the water and letting it splash back up in her face. You start the water running and she can’t get in there fast enough!
- She’s doing her own jibber jabber, which began with “da da” and “ga ga” and a bunch of other consonant-based sounds.
- Even though she doesn’t have any actual words to say yet, that doesn’t keep her from speaking up. If the rest of us Haggards are all talking at the dinner table or in the van, she starts yelling loudly, to join in. If everyone stops talking, she stops, too. That child is going to have to keep interrupting if she wants to get a word in edgewise in this family.
- She’s gone from breastmilk to pureed foods to regular food (and is still breastfeeding). She was the smallest Haggard baby to start and had a difficult time putting on weight in the first six months of life. I work really hard to breastfeed, but I think I’m just not a major milk factory and my thyroid hit some low points. Since Bea’s started eating regular foods, she’s looking chunkier. I love her little dimpled hands.
- Speaking of dimples, yes, I know you’ve noticed them. Her right one is more pronounced. My mom says they’ve passed down from her Great Grandma Olive.
- At her one year well-child exam, Bea was 80% for her head and 25% for height and weight. I think she’s going to be on the petite side, but I suppose that’s still to be seen.
- She’s acquired her two bottom teeth, but hasn’t seemed to be uncomfortable in the teething process (yet).
- She’s my brown-eyed Ian look-alike. When I compare baby photos, you can see a lot of the resemblance, although quite a few people say they see Jason in her face and I agree with that, especially as she gets older.
- At around eleven months Bea started dancing along with the rest of us. She has her own little body wiggle she does when Ian puts on his dance music, which is really super cute. Just yesterday Ian’s favorite song, “I Like to Move It, Move It” came on Pandora and she was the first one to recognize it. She got a big smile on her face and started boppin’ along to the beat.
- She loves her daddy. The minute he walks in the door from work she starts whining, wanting him to hold her. When he does, she lays her head on his shoulder. I can practically see his heart melting out of his chest.
- She also enjoys her siblings, but Ian in particular. He’s worked harder to interact with her and win her affections, so he deserves every smile she gives him.
- The thing I look forward to most at the end of each day is sneaking into Bea’s room at around 10pm and giving her one last feeding. We sit in the rocking chair and her little body keeps me warm. We rock back and forth in the quiet. I hope I never forget how full my heart feels in these moments.
Now, here’s the fun part, a pictorial of Beatrice’s first year.
Bea’s baptism and Mother’s Day
At the beach
Unhappy, but matching
With Mom, 9 months
I have the privilege of getting to know this little girl more with each passing day. She really is as sweet and soft as she’s portrayed here.
Having her wasn’t part of “the plan” for the last year and a half of our life, but you know what? My plans are pretty small and stupid.
God knew. He knew her place in our family, He knows her place in this world, and her role in His Kingdom.
Happy First Birthday, my sweet love, Beatrice. I can’t imagine our life without you, Bebo!